ExH sent me an apologetic text. He said he overreactednd thanked me for letting him know about dd and sm and he is aware they have a strained relationship. He also stated he is happy that dd is working in her confidence and communication skills as those are excellent skills for young ladies to have in life.

He states he will not mention anything to dd as he knows that there is a large level of trust alerting him to the issue and he does not want to break that trust. He will look forward to learning more in DDs counseling session.

I'm sticking to my guns this time and not backing down to keep the peace. He stood me he will no longer pay for our children to attend private school after 8 straight years since k/ pre k.

I've started looking into less expensive options that I can afford on my own. He keeps pushing the kids towards public. I keep filling him in on their school visits and how they like each school.

Yesterday our text conversations went like this:

I'm confused why you had ds11 do a visit. You said
It would be best for him to stay at his current school.

He texts me this morning to see if he can keep the kids untill 1:30 or so on Friday because SM's sister is coming to town and she'd like to take them to lunch.

Kids have no school Friday and it is my weekend. We are headed to Boy Scout Family Camp - which the ex knows about and was invited to. He is having an adult weekend and chose not to go with the boys to camp, so me and DH are taking the kids.

I remind him that I'm heading to camp with the kids and he'll need to drop them off first thing.

Why does his idiocracy bug me so much?

Yes ss14 you must walk your pit bull (dog). In the morning and in the evening. Yes. You mUST.
I'm happy to get rid of him as he has destroyed my front door - several times,my fence,my yard, my interior if my home including remotes and pillows.

I came to the relationship with a 4 lb chihuahua and though she's not perfect she does not destroy ANYTHINg. Ever.

We've added. 12 lb dog to our family since blending.