Hi everyone.  I'm new here and looking for an outlet in this hard to navigate blended family world.  It's really nice to know you can vent constructively with others that are living similar experiences.  I've been with my fiance 3 yrs.  He has a 12 yr old son and I have a 4 year old son.  We recently bought a bigger house to accomodate our family and pets.  Our plan was to get married and have another child.  I'm almost 38 and the baby door is closing on me.  I desperately want to give my son a sibling but I'm also open to adoption.