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Submitted by spitfire on Wed, 01/07/2009 - 10:08am

I wanted to thank ALL of you. B4 I found this site I was hopeless & frustrated. I felt like a monster all the time. I was unsure of my self as a stepparent and what is the right things to do and what the boundries are. I have no one around me to relate to. BM and my famuly give me grief. the only one who understands and gives me credit is my MIL. But you all have made me realize I'm not the monster and my feels and thoughts are normal and OK. A huge weight as been lifted off of me. I can smile once again and be confident again when I need to deal with BM. THANK YOU for sharing.

some more advice needed

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Submitted by spitfire on Mon, 01/05/2009 - 10:15pm

OK, it's the sunday b4 xmas and usually we make the trade of my SS9 around 5 with BM. My hubby had to leave at 4 to go deal with something at work and I asummed that he would have told BM to pick up SS early but there was some mis-communication between hubby and I and he did not do that. Also my grandma is sick and in the hospital. I am close to her and was visiting her everyday. So my hubby and I are disgusing the fact that I didn't know I was going to have SS after he left and was upset because i wanted to go to see grandma.