JUST realized we didn't invite SS for Thanksgiving!

I was doing really good at "disengaging" -- I just realized we hadn't told SS20 that I was cooking Thanksgiving lunch! DH is working tomorrow afternoon, and I was planning to go to my Mom's for dinner..till I got the sad eyes from DH that the house wouldn't smell like thanksgiving. I decided to cook lunch for him tomorrow, then go to my mom's late. A friend is working the same shift as DH tomorrow so they are coming over for a LOW KEY lunch that is early enough for a turkey-induced coma, I mean nap, before work.

I JUST realized we hadn't told SS20 I was cooking and asked DH if he had asked SS over and he said "No, I thought tomorrow was going to be a quiet, low key lunch." I asked if he thought we should invite SS, and he said "NO". LOL!!

So, my T'day plans are: get up early, make some food, enjoy a meal with a couple low-maintenance friends, then head off to see my family! I am pretty happy about that!!

Hope everyone else survives the first round of holidays, please don't hate me if my T'day is SKID FREE!!!

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Mine is sk free as well and I

Mine is sk free as well and I plan to enjoy every single moment with my bio kids! I'm praying that my dh isn't in a crappy mood because he said something the other day about sd20 not having anywhere to go for Thanksgiving (he knows I am disengaged and don't want her at my house). I just shrugged my shoulders and then he says, "Well, I guess she is going to spend Thanksgiving at a friend's house." I said, "Good for her" and I was thinking 'good for her that she realized I was serious about her not being here that she made other plans!'

Seems to me you are doing a find job of disengaging since ss didn't even come to mind! LOL I'm looking forward to a day when I am at that point. ENJOY!