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Submitted by southernbelle on Thu, 04/15/2010 - 9:16am

Thanks to everyone for all the advice and support. I talked to an older lady friend of mine at lunch yesterday, and kind of have a plan of attack. The biggest thing I need right now, both for my peace of mind and proof should I need it for court is to be able to print or forward the emails I read. Since I got into email in the first place because it was left logged on, I now need a way to hack the passward to get what I need. I hate to ask, but has anyone done this and know how to go about it?

Do I confront/discuss issue with DH?

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Submitted by southernbelle on Mon, 11/23/2009 - 3:33pm

I'm elevating the final question in my last blog, cause I'm really not sure what to do tonight! If you read through the last one posted this morning, you'll see that my DH got angry at me about something stupid, cause I DARED to question something to do with the Golden Child, also known as SS11.
He's acting today like everything is fine, but I'm not happy about the way he acted last night. I'm not sure if I should make him talk to me about his defensiveness or just let sleeping dogs lie, and chalk it up to a bad night...any advice?

What changed in stepparenting?

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Submitted by southernbelle on Thu, 10/15/2009 - 11:46am

So, I was talking to my father the other day (an adventure unto itself) and found out that almost all of my grandparents & great grand parents had a stepmother or stepfather. Since my grandparents were born in 1917, we are talking around the turn of the century. Some of them were from death, but the majority were divorce or abandonment. So, given that step families seem to be very common a century ago, what has changed that makes them appear to be so much harder to deal with today?

Problems with DH-Could be kind of long, lol

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Submitted by southernbelle on Tue, 09/29/2009 - 10:30am

I have issues with my SS's behavior, and the BM's influence, my BS being a teenager, but I'm sooo frustrated with my DH at the moment. I was going to write all this in my journal, but decided that's what ya'll are here for! First, a little more information. My DH is working in a different state than we live. He's dealing with chronic pain, insomnia, and depression. Which is making him irritable, emotional, and at times angry. I know all this, I try to be understanding and deal, but I'm just overwhelmed (and have PMS, lol) and frustrated, and tired.

Hi all-Intro

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Submitted by southernbelle on Mon, 09/14/2009 - 12:11pm

I've been lurking and reading for a while, and was very glad to see that others are in the same or similar situations as me. I've been married for 2 years now, with one BS 14 and one SS 11, so I'm both the evil stepmother and dealing with a stepmother and a bioligical mom. At times I think I'd rather have my arm broken. I'm having lots of issues with lots of things, and I have trouble sorting out which ones are my problems, or his problems, or our problems, or BM's problems. I think my DH does a LOT of guilt parenting, plus the conflict between the two boys can be infuriating.