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At what point does "doing the right thing" make you a doormat?
I really get that FDH is trying. He's trying to do what's best for his kids, keep the peace with whatshername, and have a good relationship with me. But there are things that just make me wonder if he's trying too hard.
My completely original comment for the day - "I hate Mother's Day"
Not at all original, I know. But damn, I really hate it. I didn't used to. Last year it was weird and uncomfortable, but at least tolerable. This year it just f-ing sucks.
seeing red - or, why should the skids listen to me when you don't?
Adding some additional information:
Before I get jumped on (more) for talking to my FDH like a five year old - things don't come across the same in written format. I have a very slow, quiet but sterm way of talking when I am upset about something. Unless you know me, you wouldn't even know that I'm upset. I got that from my dad. Usually the amount of trouble I was in was inversely related to his volume (the quieter he was, the more trouble I was in).
I just don't get it. How can someone be so difficult and so dumb? And how could FDH have married her?
All I have to say is WTF?
We had P/T conferences on Monday, which actually went well. Whatshername was civil and seemingly medicated.
snowed in
So, we finally get a snowstorm - I'm in WI and the white stuff has been hard to come by this year - and I'm feeling trapped. FDH is on his way to pick up the boys and usually it doesn't bother me because I always have an "out". Somewhere to go, something to do, in case I don't want to deal with them anymore. Not tonight. I'm stuck here. Whatshername has been particularly annoying this week, so I'm feeling rather negative towards the whole lot of them in general (I know, not their fault, but it's hard for me to separate my frustration with her crap from them) and really feel trapped.
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I suppose this is minor but it just really gets me....
Awhile back BM (or as I refer to her, the Sloth) emailed me through facebook about the kids (SS5 and SS8). What started out as a somewhat civil exchange about clothes. etc. quickly devolved into ridiculousness and her saying that she didn't want me emailing her anymore. Fine, I never wanted anything to do with her anyway. Problem is, she keeps popping up in facebook as a "people you might know." Well, for chuckles I decided to click and see how much information she had public. Don't know why, but I'm a nosy sort and I figure her presence intrudes on my life enough as it is.