We have been living together for 1 year. We are engaged and have separate bank accounts.  He...

1) Asks his daughter what kind of Chinese food do you want for dinner? When my two girls are at the same table. Also, one hamburger left and he asked his daughter if she wants it.

2) Went to get groceries and only bought his daughter a candy bar. When my daughter went with them. (My youngest is 12)