My problem right now is that my youngest step child Hates me. Ok so I know kids say mean thing when they are mad but she has started writing it on the wall and her bed post and I don't know what to do. I mean is there anyone out there that has this problem. i have tried everything I can think of. From talking it out to putting her on restrictions. I know that a lot of people will say that it is because she wants her Mom and Dad back together but she was a baby when they split. So I don't know what to do.