Well DH is back to 3rd shift this week and low and behold this is the first morning he is coming home at 7:15am after working all night. BM texted him a few weeks ago telling him she is starting a new job this morning and could she drop them by on the way to her new job because she starts early. I never heard another word about this.

Last night before DH left for work, I asked if he ever got back with BM about them getting dropped off, he said, "I said sure" No times, nothing.

Yesterday afternoon DH are sitting on the couch watching TV when he starts getting texts from BM, "If you are not going to buy the twins costumes for Halloween, let me know and I will pick them up and take them. They are 9 years old and deserve a fun Halloween despite your lack of interest."

We thought the kids were going through the giant tote of costumes and picking out a costume. No, they decided they didn't like the options and decided instead of letting their father know this, they would text their mother and complain.

Within the past 12 hours, I realize I'm dead last on my DH's list of priorities. He works third shift and while he is at work, the SD9 like to sleep in the same bed. I don't like this for a couple of reasons, one, they have separate rooms to sleep in and I feel they should take advantage of it since they are in hotel rooms while on their mom's time. Also, they laugh and giggle all night and I need to get to sleep as I have work in the morning.

I'm coming to the sad, depressing realization if you are involved with a man with kids, you can at any point have those kids come to live with you full-time.