I have been with my husband for over 6 years, married for 2. The kid (16 year old) that we are speaking of was abandoned by his blood mom 12 years ago, he has anger issues and hates most women. He is constantly starting crap with me so that Dad and I fight. He has some sick obsession trying to get rid of me! I’ve never put my hands on him, but he is disciplined mainly by me and loses priveledges when he acts ridiculous!