BM didn't come for the Easter weekend. The kids wanted to know why I didn't let them see her. I want to respond with so many things but i won't because I it is about the children. 

She is busy flying all over the fricken country.... Minneapolis to Denver to Seattle to Vegas to Denver to Washington DC back to Denver and back to Seattle..... yet she is over $30,000 behind in child support. She doesn't have a job (that she gets paid the correct way - under the table or in cash maybe?) She doesn't have a home or an address. 

Soooooo annoyed. SS's ages 8 and 9 have been wetting the bed the last several nights. The 8 year old tells me he is afraid of the dark. They have a nightlight in the room, their bedroom is right next door to the bathroom, which also has a nightlight in it. I turned on the hall light so they couldn't use the excuse they are scared. 

Oh. My. Goodness.... the smell of urine from the bathroom is RIDICULOUS! I have talked to them over and over and over about trying hard to aim. I know that sometimes, especially when you first start going, you can get a random spray. BUT, this is like in the garbage can, a giant puddle behind the toilet, in front of the toilet. I have had them clean it, I have had them sit (which they don't keep doing unless I monitor it, but there are 4 of them, I can't do that). I am over it. I refuse to clean it up and have been making SO do it.