help I don't want involved in my step sons life
My partner and I r due to get married soon I can't stand his child nor his ex girlfriend she is a vile controlling person who has an issue with my children being involved with her son so I've deccided that he should see his son away from our home as I'm sick of the rumours and drama of her and her mother at my door every other week .. He does stand up for me I'm. 32 and his ex is 22 and acts like a 5 year old. If we go on holiday she expects more child support cause we can afford holidays I wouldn't take their son away as my 4 children don't get on with him he's destructive he has no respect for anything calls my children tramps and slaps my youngest daughter continusly she now moans I am being unfair to her child I can't win I think I shhould walk away from this and cancel the wedding
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How long have you and your
How long have you and your fiance been together and how old is this kid? I'm guessing if mom is only 22 that the kid is under 5 and if he already acts like a tiny terrorist, I can't see it getting any better. Not fair to your kids either to have to be around such a monster.
Think long and hard about
Think long and hard about getting married.
He may be ok with his son not going to your home now, but how long will that last? He may start to resent the fact that your kids are always there, while his isn't allowed to visit at all.
The same with vacations. Sooner or later he's going to resent the fact that he goes on vacation with his stepkids but not his own son.
Let BM complain all she wants. As long as you aren't mistreating her son, she doesn't have a leg to stand on. Let your kids know it's ok to fight back.