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Sergiobrm's picture

I became the father of my exs daughter when she was 2. 4 years later i had a boy. 2 years from that we broke up ive been raising my kids alone for 4 years now.my son 6 my daughter 12. Then 3 months ago maternal grandmother called social services on me on bs accusations trying to take custudy of my daughter for 3 months ive had social workers and cops come regularly to our home 3 dcfs investigations and all cleared me no problems at our home. 2 weeks ago from out of nowhere biological dad not seen for 11 years shows up with exparte order takes my daughter cops had to yank her off of me she didnt want to go i failed her by allowing that. I went tru hell got her back expensive ass lawyer left me broke couldnt sleep couldnt eat but seven days later my lawyer got exparte overturned and my daughter is back home only now she dsnt want to come home she said she likes it over there she wants to be with her father.this guy has 6 kids lives off welfare in the time she was there she missed school everysingle day. She hates me shes at home but shes not the same she hardly talks to me im heartbroken and dnt knw how to deal with this i never tought my little girl would do this we where always close played laughed joked cryied together she was my rock. Now after only 7bdays shes calling him her dad and not talking to me. Im scared and confused and sad. 

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Winterglow's picture

Just a few questions to help me understand.

Did you adopt your ex's daughter?

If not, why did your ex leave a child you were not even related to on your doorstep?

If you did adopt her, her bio father has no rights whatsoever to her because you are her legal father. What is your ex MIL's beef with the children? Assuming that her daughter is still alive and hasn't been banned from seeing her kids?

 

tog redux's picture

I have many questions - all of Winterglow's plus, I'm wondering if she is still having contact with the bio father? Sounds like for whatever reason, he and grandma are trying to turn her against you. 

BethAnne's picture

It sounds like your daughter needs to speak to a therapist. You and your son might benefit from it too. 

Harry's picture

Then you did not legally adopt her. ?   Basically you have no legally rights to her. ?  Where is this kids Bio. Mother?