Hello, everyone! Long time no see! I've been incredibly busy with school and my new life. And it's been wonderful. I just turned 21! And to think not too long ago, exH and I had different ideas as to how to celebrate my birthday. Crazy how things change so fast, but this has been great.

And I got the best birthday present I could ever ask for.

Not having to deal with blabb! Yay!

Anyway, I've come here because I heard some upsetting news. Warthog got married not too long ago to another guy who apparently has a reputation for not being the most faithful. That's not the best part though. She's moving to a different state. With blabb.

It sounds awful, and I really feel for exH. This hasn't been his best year at all. A divorce, and now his daughter is being taken away. During our marriage, he put blabb and warthog first, so I decided that I wanted out because I deserve better. My thought was, if I leave, they'll all have each other and can be all happy and that sort of thing. Once I leave, Warthog gets married and now she's moving away.

I asked exH about it, and apparently blabb is pretty excited about moving. Obviously she hasn't quite grasped the idea of it yet. When she realizes that she can't go to daddy's when mommy won't give her what she wants, she'll be in for a rude awakening.

It's a really sad situation, and I do feel bad for exH. But, what can you do? If he had only treated me better and our marriage like it mattered, I would still be by his side through this whole thing.