ok so I havent vented very much lately mostly cuz FH had my original screen name and knew I posted. although I try to talk to him about things he is just so damn stubborn. So I come here to release and get good advice or just understanding.
So FH finds out that BS 18 got a ticket on the car FH lets BS borrow. So what does FH do, pays the ticket for BS. WTF. Oh and the ticket was posted in March. I tell him isnt it BS responsiblity to pay the ticket FH said he had to pay it otherwise FH would get in more trouble. I say ok fine but how is BS learning about responsiblity when you just pay for something he did wrong.
SILENT TREATMENT. So he finally says he has not had a chance to talk to BS about the ticket. I said so what if he doesnt pay you back. no response, I said so why dont you take the car from him till he pays you back. more silence, so I drop it.. I just dont get it, this boy is a mess, he thinks the world owes him and that if you dont think the way he does then you are stupid. He is an angry kid and has cheated on many of his girlfriends yet does not understand why they dont trust him. I have a 18 y/oBS and he knows that if he gets a ticket for anything, he loses his car privleges and he goes off my insurance. What does FH do??? Pays for the ticket and the kid still gets to drive the car. and have insurance PAID by good ol dad. I guess what bothers me the most is the silent treatment. if you dont agree then talk to me if you agree then talk to me. dont ignore me.
ok I am done thanks for reading.