It's nice to vent without getting into a fight with my hubby. The last 5 years of my life have been hard! But in sure everyone had had it hard with their sk too! I met my hubby when sd was 9 ish and it's been hard ever since. Her bm has always tried to and has been a pain and a strain on our relationship. They dated when they were young and had been together for years!! Ok not my problem right? Wrong!!! For every family holiday I've not been allowed for the first 3 years because it was too uncomfortable for her to be in the same room as me.