Well just to let all of you know, I did take the medicine out today, she called my DH and told him she was on her way and asked him to have me send SS out and my DH said well you need his medicine and she said oh Jesus its not a big deal have ... bring it out, so I walked my SS out the door and handed him the medicine in full view of her and myself I stopped at the end of our deck and watched him hand the medicine to his mom, then I asked her if she wanted his boots in case it rained and she nicely said no, he has a pair of mud boots at my house, so I said ok then I told her I already gave SS one does of the pink med. and the other one which is once a day she said I know DH alredy told her. I am not sure if she said she knew because she hates the fact I talk to her at all, she hates the fact I get to be mom 25 days out of the month, but she seemed nice enough and faked it. I am not sure if any of this bothers her at all??? My SS gave her cupcake dish back to her also and said here mom we threw them away, I told him in the house we threw them away because they were to old to eat, because he asked where the cupcakes were. I thought it was funny when he said that to her. Anyway I am not sure who gets the last laugh, but all I can hope is that she hates me more than I hate her and I hope it bothers her having to come to my house more than it bothers me havin her here, I am sure it does after all she is the mom acting like an aunt and not a mom. She called my DH's cell tonight for ss to say good night like always because she will not call my house, she hangs up on me, but tonight he phone was in my car so I said hello to see if she would hang up on me or talk, to see if we had a break through today but she hung up, not surprising, I am just hoping the more I have to see her and talk to her, even if it is small that it does make me the better person for starting the conversation and being able to look at her, instead of her not even wanting to knock on my door to get her son. Just so you know I do work but it is spring break, I do not want you to think I sit home collecting her CS which we have not even been to court yet for. Any way what is you opinion, do you think it bothers her more than it bothers me???