DH paying tons of money every month to Bm and those funds not staying in our home is bad enough but I can live with it. I just wish he would give up visitation and never see those damn kids and BM.

He is going to visitation tomorrow, 2 hour drive one way, and has to take them to chuck e cheese because that's all they want. Meanwhile I stay home and take care of our BS 8 months. We both work tons of hours in the week, I want the weekends for our family, not his kids. Plus I hate the extra money spent on them. I just wish he never saw them.