Hi im new here and i am so so glad that i have found this place. I feel like i am about to explode from all this stress radiating from bm. This woman just shows up with a fiance after three years of no contact and is making demands! I have completely stayed out of this but i am up to my eyeballs in tension and stress and nonsense. Not only has she disrupted our home life, confused stepdaughter and our biosons and spent the last four months manipulating stepdaughter, but i am dealing with stress levels that i have not dealt with since the boys were tiny infants. Anyway, ill keep this short but let me just say that i am so glad to have found a place to let off steam.