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How many other BMs think we dont talk to our partners??

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Monday we had sd7 for overnight access as BM was 'working'
All been prearranged for sometime.
Anyway BM decided at 5pm to txt SO......
'to confirm i will pick up sd in morning at 8. I did tell SM but i doubt she passed the message on'
WTF!!!!
Does she think that SO and I dont speak to each other???
The constant contact with SO is really unnecessary. Luckily SO hasfinally got the.message NOT to respond to her or he has to suffer my wrath!

eugh i feel sick

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I have already had a discussion this morning with SO about lack of respect from his kids and if they dont respect him how on earth will they ever respect me.
At present sd17 is sitting on sofa next to daddieeeee with her legs thrown over his. I really do feel sick.
She is also asking him to make her cheese toastie as she cba!
Im sat on other sofa not speaking because if i open my mouth i think a) i will vomit all over her and b) all hell will break loose as i wont stop the triad that is going around in my head!

need to get it off ny chest

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Sd 2o turned up xmas eve and stayed night and popped back after work xmas day for dinner. We have a strained relationship as she claims she cant live with me... Tried for a week before moving out.... Fine by me!
Anyway she was pleasant, polite and joined in with family life while here. I was pleased for my other half that all 4 of his children were here xmas day.
Today she came to collect 2 of her sisters as they had been invited out for dinner with their maternal uncle.

first festive arguement

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Our first Christmas eve as a blended family and its like living in 2 separate households.
I actually havent seen my bio daughter she has stayed cooped up in her room.
The stepkids have all put Santas presents under the tree. Thats a farse. They all know what they amd each other have got so what was the point of wrapping them.
Ive decided to go to bed early and stay out of the way.
This is not christmas eve for me Sad

BM knows all our movements.

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God how i hate that BM knows all our movements. SO and I have gone away for a few days and yet BM knows about it because tye skids have informed her!
Why do they need to tell her??? None of her damn business as far as I am concerned.
Roll on another 3 yrs when youngest skid that lives ith us is 18.

getting seriously hacked off

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Really pissed off with the constant phone calls from Madwitch to SO. I have insisted on all calls to be diverted to answerphone but she refuses to leave a message and has now started calling SD to pass phone to daddykins.
Pissed off with SO for answering calls. She lost the right to have SO at her beck and call yet SO seems intent on giving her that right back.
So pissed right now.

christmas presents under the tree

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SO and I are currently arguing over how to make Christmas work this year as it is our first together.
My tradition is santa brings a stocking and places at end of bed. All presents from family are placed under the tree as an when they are recieved, once the tree is up.
My SO has santa deliver presents at end of bed and all 'family' presents are placed under tree xmas eve (when all are asleep) ready for xmas morning.

I've arranged

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Counselling for SD17 and oh my lord does she hate it!
Im fed up with her sullen attitude, not joining in family life and grunting at me. she expects daddkins to do everything for her and im sick of it.

So appointment is at 1pm daddy is taking her and i have the house to myself!
Cant wait for the aftermath of this....

Yet another meal ruined

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By princess SD17!
Seriously getting fed up with her attitude. She is unbelievably lazy. She was asked to go through one box from the garage that was marked with her name. We have been in our house for 2months and this is the first box apart from the essentials we asked her to sort.
Mega hissy fit 5 mins before dishing up dinner. Spoke to her father like a piss of s**t.
Refused to have dinner. Atmosphere at the table awful because other half in a foul mood. Took it out on his other child. No one ate their dinner except myself and my daughter.

why does he keep doing this?

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Got home tonight and SO tells me he emailed his exw to tell her that someone she used to know has died.
Now im sorry this person has died but why does he have to email her? She hasnt had contact with this person for other 2years and yet my SO feels he has to tell his exw.
Quite honestly this is beginning to really wind me up. Is he going to continue to do this 5, 10, 15 years down the line??
Aghhhhhh

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