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How many other BMs think we dont talk to our partners??

Raggles's picture

Monday we had sd7 for overnight access as BM was 'working'
All been prearranged for sometime.
Anyway BM decided at 5pm to txt SO......
'to confirm i will pick up sd in morning at 8. I did tell SM but i doubt she passed the message on'
WTF!!!!
Does she think that SO and I dont speak to each other???
The constant contact with SO is really unnecessary. Luckily SO hasfinally got the.message NOT to respond to her or he has to suffer my wrath!

(only reason BM had to speak to me was she dropped off sd at 8am and SO indisposed! I didnt have much choice in answering the door or i think she would battered it down)

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onstrike's picture

I am so glad your dh has caught onto this crap and limits bm and her intrusiveness.These bm are seeking attention and trying to throw shade at us stepmoms. It is pathetic and you and dh must present a united front! Bm just wanted a chance to insult you,which is just pitiful

Raggles's picture

Tbh i was totally gobsmacked this time. We avoid each other as much as possible. I want nothing to do with her.
Trouble is the same situation is presenting itself tomorrow because is taking one of their other children(that lives woth us full time) out at 730am and wont be back in time to answer door in morning. Thats my pleasure.
I am sorely tempted to say..... No point telling me anything as SO and I dont talk. Please feel.free to txt him later, in order for him.to ignore it again!!

MissElphaba's picture

She's just stirring the pot...sounds pretty bitter to me. I wouldn't worry about it.

Raggles's picture

All communication has always been through email. Just recently since we have moved in together she txts and phones. Never gets a response as her number.is.blocked.on his phone.
Guess i was surprised as we do have very little to do with each other.
Interesting though.... Today sd7 told me i was getting fat!
I asked says who?? She went all coy and woudnt answer. Guess im the new topic of conv in their house atm!