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Submitted by purpledaisies on Wed, 12/04/2013 - 8:55pm

Apparently he got out of prison last week but was transfered here for something. So I get a message from his sister that he wants me to bring my son down to see him. What? First he left when he was a baby and hasn't seen him since. He a few years ago sent a letter from prison but its Bern very sporadic as to when he gets a letter. My son said he stopped writting him b/c he was asking about and not him.

I just want to say thank GOD I have the dh I have

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Submitted by purpledaisies on Tue, 12/03/2013 - 12:53pm

There is no way I could put up with the shit some of you ladies do nor could I look at some of these things the way you do either. Sorry but I believe a relationship is a 2 way street and if there is something that bugs me I bring it up to dh and we decide together what will happen.

He told me when we first got together that our marriage was the most important thing to him. Of course he has 3 kids and they are his responsibility but that doesn't mean that he would put our marriage on the back burner.

anyone elses dh do this

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Submitted by purpledaisies on Mon, 12/02/2013 - 11:45am

I'm almost done shopping for my kids. Just need a few more things. But the skids only have one present and that is b/c dh went with me shopping one night.

I don't get their gifts b/c I don't understand all the game crap they want. So dh does it. But he is still behind. I feel bad too as my kids have several under the tree and his only have one right now.

omg hell froze over

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Submitted by purpledaisies on Thu, 11/28/2013 - 12:47pm

Yuck is letting us have the boys for thanksgiving. I'm in shock! She never does that. We were hoping we could get them for aittle while tonight for pics. But this us even better. So happy. We are surprising mil she doesn't know yet.

im a little upset right now

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Submitted by purpledaisies on Tue, 11/19/2013 - 11:56am

I've been cleaning like mad as I have family coming in for thanksgiving and will be staying at our house.

I cleaned the boys room from top to bottom and found all kinds of trash. I talked to dh and he had a talk with the boys.

So knowing that they went back to their moms and left the room trashed again. Ugh!

I'm glad dh is a good guy and understands he said he'd make them clean it. But they won't be back in time to clean it before family shows up. So that means I have to clean it again! Ugh

my bio dad

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Submitted by purpledaisies on Fri, 11/15/2013 - 2:57pm

I talked to my other brother today and my bio dad wants to meet me! He just hasn't had a chance to call me yet. Other brother said to wait for him to call me.

However he said his mom is not taking it well that he had sex before her. I think she wants to he mad and upset and is using that to be mad about. I told other brother she needs time to digest all this.

But I will get to meet them. So excited can't wait.

Thank you to everyone that helped me through this.

when to stop giving pjs for christmas

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Submitted by purpledaisies on Wed, 11/13/2013 - 2:57pm

I've been sitting here thinking. My 2 kids are in college my skids are 18 16 14. As the kids get older and start their own families when should I stop giving Pjs on Christmas eve every year?

I give every kid a new set on Christmas eve to have some thing new and something to open. It's a tradition and I remember on year dh talked me out of it and they were all disappointed.

But as they get older and have families of their own I can't afford to buy pjs for them and their kids Snd spouse. But I love giving the Pjs.

What to do?

im a sd!

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Submitted by purpledaisies on Mon, 11/11/2013 - 1:26pm

I called bio dad and let him know the results. He is hunting and will be back Wednesday. He said that he will have to talk to his family.
But I have been talking to my sis and bro all weekend. They seem to think it will be ok just will go slow for their mom. My sm. That seem weird to say my sm. Wow. I tell them that i'd like to get to know her too and don't want to leave her out.
I'm trying to make it as easy as I can. But it does sound very positive. I'll be happy if they do want to get to know me but if they don't ill have to accept that.

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