My SD is 20 and will be 21 in Jan. The problem is that my DH raised her to be a spoiled bratt. I blame him for her behavior bc he caters to her. I have told him several times that she needs a job. He buys her gas for her car to go run the streets, clothes that reveals more than I care to say, provides for her total living. The problem is that she nit picks at my 13 yrs old. She wears her clothes and then complains to DH once OUR 13 yrs old wears something of hers creating confusion between DH and me. I have talked to both our girls to wear their own clothes.