Hi all! I've been on here lurking (and I've made a couple posts) for about 2 1/2 years now. I've been meaning to start my blog but since I'm usually at work when I'm reading and they monitor everything we do I thought better of it. Yay for vacation.

Where do I start? This life is a mess and I hate feeling like I made a mistake in continuing to date my husband after some the red flags were all out there. Of couse, I didn't know some of them were so significant until I started reading some of your blogs and was already 2 years into the relationship.