Well, the Mt. Everest of laundry piles sas thrown in my bedroom yesterday after school. Dont know if he did it on his own, or if dh told him to. He was 2 days shy of going an entire month without washing any clothes. And being that he hasnt showered in a week and a halv, the pile is pretty ripe.

Im sure dh has put it all out of his mind and assumes I will be washing and drying and folding it for ss thks weekend. I am most definjtely not. I neec a quick, clear succinct way to answer him when he notices that I didnt touch any of ss clothes all weekend.

The laundry wars that is.

Heres a quick recap, so you know how we got to where we are right now.

Week1- no laundry brought to be washd.....one week dirty laundry in ss room

Week2- laundry dumped in laundryroom bedtime on Sunday. So no laundry in ss room, 2 Weeks worth sitting by washer.

Week three- dh starts but doesnt finish any clothes. Ss hzs one week of dirty laundry in his room that he doesnt bring to be washed.

For anyone who doexnt know the history.... My inlaws hate me z.d dont acknowledge my kids with dh as family.

Sil sent my husband a text on Sunday that they werr having nieces 4th birtnday tbis Sunday. Its at step_mil house (where sil also lives). She phrased her invite..... We would love it if you would come and bring all the kids.

Now, to me that sounds like she is underhandedly inviting dh and the kids... But excluding me.

Today is dh's half day at work.... So he got home at 2.

(On the phone)

Hey, where should I put this clothes, there's too much from the drier to fit in the basket. Should I put it on bs4's bed?

Well, whose clothes is it?

Its a mix, ss's and it looks like yours and the boys.

Well, put ss's on his bed and put the rest on bs4's.

SS folds his own clothes now?

Well, I don't see a reason why he can't...... Long pause to see if dh would say anything...... Or you could fold it for him.