Awwww...the dreaded weekend came and went. Saturday I had a house full of kids between mine/SD and a neighbor girl...kids in/out...the made a MESS of my house. I had the STUPID idea to make a beer chicken and mashed potates (real ones) instead ordering the ingrates some damn pizzas and be done with it.

Seriously-the house was a mess when all was said and done-I had a nervous breakdown, had to take an ati-went OFF on the bf....and cried in my bathroom. I'm sick and tired of all of this shit falling on my house-messes, cooking, the sd expect the house to be a damn open pantry 24/7...f' that I told him repeatedly-this is NOT a damn buffet-we serve dinner when we do and WE have to agree to snacks-i'm not ok w/snacking every 30min because of boredom, HELL NO. I told him neither him, my ex or his ex would ever have this shit and mess at their house and i was always shitted on and was sick of it. Literally I was a basket case. Sunday I just plain told him I didn't want anyone over-I had to CLEAN the DISASTER MOSTLY instigated by SD. My boys know better then to drag toyroom toys into the rooms-yet she's here and starts all this shit they normally don't do-everytime!

I tell the SD OVER AND OVER NO physical play, no wrestling, no fighting, no tickling, no hands on each other period-the skid has NO boundaries EVER-and once shit starts it all goes downhill from everyone. I dont'care if my boys fight once in a while-she is NOT their sister and I WILL not allow physical fights OR just monkeying around-playing, roughhousing, teasing, nothing. She's ALWAYS up somebodys ass. Bf had gone for an errand-AGAIN she's starting to mess w/my oldest...I go in and tell her to stop-she starts arguing about "no i didn't do...." I said, STOP I dont' care who's doing what-STOP being on top of eachother, wrestling, NO hands, period! BOTH OF YOU!!

She storms off to the bathroom-my son comes behind her-I repeat to him (knowing she's listening) it's NOT apprpriate I dont' care WHO started what. NO MORE, put a stop to it-BOTH of you. She then storms out of bathroom and tries to go outside w/the neighbor girl. I started to give her instructions as I was going to store when bf came back-she started walking off. I loudly said "EXCUSE ME SD-I'm TALKING to you, you dont' walk away from me when I'm talking to you, that's RUDE!" DEAD in her tracks...she stopped, listened and then went outside...which is fine, dont' think she expected me to speak up that way and it shocked her. Told the bf about it when he got back and he agreed I did the right thing and "good job-she needed it" UGGHHH

OH and of COURSE.....his parnts get a call from BM- (well SD did too-God forbid the idiot refrains from calling when she's w/dad)....

What BM wanted: For SD to stay w/them Sunday night as she had to work OT (like EOW you lying stupid bitch-we KNOW this for fact-so do his parents)
That BF needed to get her shoes/cleats for soccer....OH and that we had to swap Halloween wknd.
BF tells me this over phone Sunday-which made me even MORE pissy.

OF COURSE-Bf said HELL no she gets CS-so of course what do they do? Go out and get the shoes for her.
OH..and of course they say "she can stay w/us Sunday night"-and I'm sure they agreed to the swap that involves OUR wknd

Halloween is on a monday you stupid cow! He told them he was NOT swapping wknds-if she needed an extra wknd and he does two/her two and back to schedule. The stupid bitch-i'm sick of her shit. I'm angry that his parents bend over backwards for "SD" But help greedy selfish BM in the process while I get the toughest shit of the whole lot of them.