I have been with my partner for five years. We got engaged this last spring.

He is divorced and he and his ex adopted children from child services. He has his son 6 weeks in the summer and a week every other Christmas, he lives in another city,

The 13 year old boy is autistic aspburgers, we had a horrible week at Christmas this year. He is rude ignorant and disrespectful and his dad does nothing because visits are few.