I'm used to writing heavier posts, but this one's light-hearted...at least to me, as BM is now getting a taste of her own medicine. Lol!

BM is dating a recent divorcee who has two young children. They decided that they should live together early in the relationship for financially beneficial reasons rather than a natural progression of the relationship. I guess BM thought that having someone pay half her rent meant she had more money to blow.

Anyway, her boyfriend had previously lost custody of his children because his ex decided to move far away and a judge gave her full-custody, but the two little ones do fly in a couple times a year to see their dad. Once, when I knew they were visiting, I asked SD18 how the kids were doing. And, she told me in the angriest tone that they were brats, they didn't listen, and they were loud...and that's why she didn't want to stay at her mom's house. Hahaha!!! These kids are 4 and younger. SD has DS3, her half-sibling, and would never feel or say that stuff about him. I think SD is probably relaying and mimicking a lot of her mother's feelings about these kids.

Plus, BM is telling DH a bunch of stuff that she should really just keep to herself, but now we know. I guess, her boyfriend's ex wants more child support since she has the kids full-time and she found out BM was living together with her ex, so she had BM's income subpoenaed for court. Lol!!! I bet BM never thought it would happen to her. But, that's karma....hahaha! She always expected me to help support her kids, financially and emotionally, while talking sh*t about me and DH. DH and I were paying 90% of the skids support for a loong time and even though she made like 75% of what DH made, she gave us hell about changing it to a fair distribution of support, but I guess maybe she matured a bit. Not much, but a bit.

So, now she's trying to vent her frustrations of having a crazy BM to DH and is telling DH that she's glad he's so reasonable. Hahaha! She doesn't even recognize her own behavior. She made our lives miserable for a long time doing the similar stuff that her boyfriend's ex is doing. I only had to wait about 6 years for BM to calm down, so maybe she only has about 5 years to go. Hahaha!!