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Submitted by nellie80 on Thu, 03/08/2012 - 2:43am

So before and over Christmas it was lovely. All the parents and steps other halves and kids went to see Santa. Presents and cards were exchanged. But since January it has all gone down hill and I feel caught in the middle.

I do agree with my DH that his ex has lied about him and has treated him really unfairly. Yet I agree with her that he needs to be more proactive in being involved in the kids lives.

Oh what a suprise....

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Submitted by nellie80 on Sat, 11/26/2011 - 5:31am

So the BM didnt allow SD7 to come to visit for the past two occassions yet allowed SS3 to come. This was because she was accusing my SO of basically emotionally hurting her. So the BM called the mental health team in, told them that the SD's issues were due to her dad and his lack of ability to parent. They assessed the SD and told the BM that it wasnt the case instead, as we had told the BM, they said she was a little girl confused by the separation of her parents. The team advised the BM to allow contact.

Stalking

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Submitted by nellie80 on Thu, 11/24/2011 - 3:01pm

The lines of communication need to be cut. If its not email its text. If not text its chat. If he still ignores the non skid related rant from the BM then its through me. No more. Number barred. Please go and get a job so that your life is full of more than just ranting. Or better still let a skid pour water on the PC and put your phone in the loo.

I am just trying to be a parent.......

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Submitted by nellie80 on Mon, 11/14/2011 - 2:32pm

Ok, so I am not the biological mother of your son. Ok, so I did not give birth to him. But in loving his father I love him too for who he is, who he wants to be and who he will be. Pushing him out into the world does not make you a good mother. Being a good mother makes you a good mother. I am a good step mum. So butt out of my life. I don't infringe on yours and question you. If it's good enough for his dad it is good enough for me.