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Need Advise: the sd is coming this weekend how do I handle it

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My husband has made these big plans this weekend with his SD and I am along for the ride (a bad roller coaster).  She hasn’t been to our house since Christmas and I literally have to take Zanex befor she comes.     So first off I am being lied too by my husband.  He told me that the SD wanted to go to the lake this weekend l.   But I over heard him on a phone convo with the SD  and he said  we had plans to go to the lake and she was more than welcome to come ( not the same story he told me.).

Why can’t I just put on my big girl panties on and WALK

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Why do I keep doing this?  Why do I keep living in this world where my husband thinks it’s only about  his SD and him. So graduation was yesterday...he informs me today she will be coming to our house next weekend so we can celebrate.  Ok, I get it...I understand the celebration.  It’s an occasion to celebrate. Figure we grill, eat and I clean while he tells her how perfect she is and is the only person who has a brain...yayayaya!  

SD Graduating college, but lying to all about degree

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Hello Everyone!  I am a newbie here and I hope I can do this...this blogging, venting and have “friends” here that understand!    

The SD graduates college this weekend and boy am I dreading the interaction with ex’s. Here’s some background on the SD and maybe you can understand why I disengage as much as possible.