Hello,
I'm a 27 year old step mother to two boys. My fiancée is 41. We are to be married in 2012.
When I first met his ex wife I thought she was lovely, my fiancée and had a great relationship for the kids. After my fiancée and I brought a house and moved in together she started making lots of comments about the past - when they were together ( over 8 years ago) she felt the need to constantly remind me of what they did and how their house was decorated etc etc