OK so psycho BM made life hell when DD1 was fighting for her life in utero...brief run down she loved to make horrid comments i.e. "I will laugh when your baby dies" referred to her as "handicapped baby" and sent a text on her 1st BDAY asking how "birthday gimp" was. Flash forward to today and she sends text to DH (she is 30 weeks with #6 @ 25) and she is asking all kinds of medical questions as she has been hospitalized and the babys life is in danger. My heart says she is just a scared mother but my mind says FU! So I took the high road and answered her questions but my inner angel and devil are wrestling. DH says he is just going to say nicely that he prays no one evr says to her what she said to us. Of course we are rearranging life to accommodated skids for awhile but its hard to feel like we are doing her a favor. Just recently we took skids for 5 days so she could attend her grandfathers funeral to find out later he is alive and well.