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What would you do?fathers day

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Submitted by Mum2twogirlz on Mon, 06/17/2024 - 5:23am

So Father's Day... stepdaughter bm dosent get anything for dh, no card, no call nothing. I believe Father's Day should be special so I got cards gifts etc and booked a lunch for us (me&dh) kids were with grandparents skid was with bm. This is where I was stuck, who do I write the card is from? I felt so bad I ended up writing all kids names on including skid. What would you do going forward? Leave skid name off and if she asks why tell her to ask her bm? I don't know.

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Submitted by Mum2twogirlz on Wed, 06/05/2024 - 1:56pm

Basically sd, turned 6. Dh didn't buy a gift or card so neither did I. I went over board for the 2 girls Christmas because I was feeling mum guilt that it would be the last time before baby was born. Anyway, baby is here now. Apparently I was being talked about and it was "shocking" I didn't get skid anything for birthday, why should I! I don't see BM giving anything for my 2 bio kids. When it was bio 2yr old birthday MIL gave her a set of pyjamas around over a week later. But not if it's skid, new shoes, toys etc. am I being unreasonable here?

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