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I'm gonna FLIP.. Apparently the little rash SS has had has been confirmed as SCABIES!!!
Are you kidding me?!
I could set my house on fire right about now.
SS has eczema so I was sure that's what this rash was, that he kept having on different parts of his body, week after week.
We mentioned the constant rash to BM upon drop off yesterday, and she said she was aware and had cream for it.
DH asked why SS was called absent from school today and BM comes back with..
"He has scabies!"
So that's now ring-worm & scabies within' months of each other!
All contagious and all stemming from the nasty BM's house!!!
What to do about BM's behavior in this last 6 weeks of school!
We were granted full custody Apr. 8th, but we decided to let SS[almost 6] stay in the school he's in with a great special ed teacher- for the last 6 weeks and he will reside with us starting June 3rd.
BM knows the teacher was set to testify against her in court, although it wasn't necessary and the teacher didn't.
We were granted full custody of SS on Thursday! BM must pay DH child support
SS will start residing with us when school is out in early June.
Serious Sleep Issues with SS5- Does any of this sound familiar to anyone?
We get SS5 every weekend.
Normally get him home around 7:30-8:00 on Fridays
DH Normally lets DH stay up until an ungodly hour normally 11:00-11:30 on Friday- Mostly because no matter what time he
goes to bed he will get up once during the night and at 6:30 a.m. for the day
This is how the schedule goes:
10:30-ish SS5 is dressed for bed and puts on pull up
10-:30-11/11:30- DH and SS5 sit on the couch watching tv
until they both fall alseep
DH will [when he wakes up] take SS up to his bed then
gets in our bed.
So.. Our attorney mailed us a copy of the Guardian Ad Litem's report that was submitted to the judge..
Her recommendation is that DH should have full custody of SS5 and that BM is incapable of addressing his educational/developmental needs at this time.
Has anyone been through this?
How much weight does the guardian's report hold in court?
Your thoughts..
PAS- Parental Alienation Syndrome OR Something else..
Ok.. Explain this to me..
BM will allow us to retrieve SS5 every weekend, every holiday, every long weekend and winter break etc.
"ON PURPOSE?" When asked why we picked SS up in dirty/smelly clothing and dirty mismatched socks
Every week it never changes..
I would be embarassed to send my child that way to his father.
DH Sent her a text when we got home because she was spouting off about having his sweatshirt or something and how all of SS's sweatshirts are at our house.... right....
So we get SS home and he's got on a filthy longsleeve shirt under another shortsleeved dirty shirt, too small pants and a footie sock on one foot and a long one on the other that looked like he walked outside in them..
BM Left a scathing message on DH's voicemail yesterday... I was able to send it to the attorneys email
**The message was left after DH texted BM asking why if SS was as sick as she claimed the night before, did she send him to school that day and the next-She blamed DH for getting him sick over the weekend, because we didn't dress him properly etc.. she sent him to school coughing his head off with a fever
On the voicemail she called him every expletive known to man and at the very end she said I don't give a f*ck what you do, you just need to care for your Fat/Ugly/Homely/Pathetic/Bitter wife!
Question: Mom 95% of the time refuses to let DH talk to SS on the phone when he calls during the week..
He calls and texts her asking to speak to SS or asking if BM will please have SS call him.
She ignores the request 90% of the time and we know she's getting the messages, because she will make comments in nasty texts to DH after the fact.
She then will tell DH to quit harassing her..
We don't go back to court again for custody until April.
No Valentines from SS! The teacher had to scrounge up some for him to give out..
Am I just being overly sensitive?
The teacher asked BM to make sure she sent SS with Valentines cards to exchange with the class, they sent a reminder home in the folders the day before, the teachers assistant reminded BM and BM told them- she would send them. It was also on the school calendar that is sent home and in the newsletter- I don't think BM looks at any of them.
On Friday they have the Valentine party and exchange and SS has no valentines.
The teacher had to give him a few that she had extra, so that he could exchange