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Sh*& storm part 2
It has been what, less then 12 hours since I posted about BM not getting our shit anymore? Well, yup, that didn't last very long. She called DH today to tell him that SD failed yet another math test. She said the teacher sent home a note saying that SD is not paying attention in class at all and that she can't grasp the new math concepts because she doesn't care to listen and learn. This is no surprise to me. I knew this was going on since the beginning of school this year.
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Funny how BM gets to control our sh*$ storms
I have read on here 100 times that when the BM is happy then our worlds seem to go a little smoother and I have always thought that wasn't true. I always assumed that I could control the shit storms that sweep in and take over my life. Well as it turns out, I was wrong. I have come to the realization that when all is right in BM's world, she leaves us the hell alone and is even somewhat "easy going" about everything.
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SD and Counselor
DH was in the shower getting ready to take SD to her counselor this morning and SD yelled in to him that BM canceled the appointment. He was shocked so he said that he would call her when he got out. He called and BM said that since SD was happier now that she moved back in with her ExH that she didn't feel that SD needed to go anymore.
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What a B*&$#!
BM has been trying to get our weekend time with SD lately. SO DH called to talk to SD last night and she actually answered the phone. DH was asking her a question and he could tell someone was talking to SD in the background. SD told DH to told hold on because BM was talking and then she said "here you can just talk to her daddy".
BM gets on the phone and tells DH "hey, can I have SD on June 16th"
DH said "what day is that?"
BM "It is a Saturday or a Sunday I think. I just need a quick answer yes or no"
DH "Let me look at the calendar"
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Needing to vent today
I am tired of everyone accusing me of being the bad guy. BM says that I am a bad person now (even though just a few short months ago I was the best thing to happen to SD according to BM and she was sooooo happy that she and I could be friends :sick: ) Even though I have done nothing and nothing has changed other than HER personal life. Oh and I stopped agreeing with her on every subject. So, sorry BM, that I don't kiss your big fucking ass anymore!
DH automatically assumes that I am in some kind of bad mood everyday. Which in-turn puts me in a bad mood trying to drfend myself.
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Mothers Day
DH let me sleep in and made breakfast for all of us when I got up. I curled SD hair so she could go out with BM for Mothers Day. Then I spent the rest of the day doing... NOTHING. AND IT WAS GREAT! Spent time on the couch with DH and the girls and I loved every minute of it.
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Questions??? Please give me a little advice
Ok so I posted the other day about BM wanting to change visiting schedules. A little re-cap... it has been almost 7 years since BM and DH split (never married) and SD will be 8 in June. Never had a CO only verbal agreement for 50/50 no CS, everything split 50/50. We get SD every other Thursday and every Friday through Monday morning. Bm has her Monday morning through Wednesday and our Thursdays off. This has never been a problem until this last year or so. DH works nights so the schedule is great for us. BM doesn't work at all so it should be fine with her too.
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BM wants to change visiting schedule??
So my DH and BM have never had a court order visitation schedule. They were never married and have not been together since SD was around 1 year old. Thats means that they have not been together for almost 7 eyars now (SD will be 8 in June). Ever since they split, they have had a verbal 50/50 agreement with no child support. All school related or extra curricular activities split 50/50. DH has SD every other Thursday after school and every Friday after school to Sunday and takes her to school Monday morning so she can go back to BM's after school.
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Why does she do this??
DH just called me all in a tizzy. He has been trying to call SD every day this week and she hasn't answered her phone. He finally broke down and called BM to make sure SD was ok. BM said "yeah she is fine, Bob (BM's ExH, name changed) is taking her to school right now". :jawdrop:
DH asked "well did he pick her up from your moms house (that is where BM lives since she left Bob for cheating on her and hitting her)?"
BM said "no, we stayed at his house last night" :jawdrop:
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Question... How are the finances handles between you and you DH, SO, Etc.
There has been some major strain on my financial relationship with DH lately. Mostly the fact that there is so much money going out every month. Don't get me wrong, there is plenty coming in to cover it, but it is such a shock to see it go so fast. My DH is an owner/operator of a semi and dump trailer he hauls coal with. That means that all of the work, parts, keep-up of the truck gets done by my DH and paid for with the money he makes from driving the truck. I also work, but I do not make near as much money as DH.