I am new to this so please understand. I am twenty eight and engaged to a great guy...well at times. I have no children or my own but he has two. His daughter is 21 (yes he is 44) and his son is 15. He and his daughter really dont have a relationship. I have never met her but she knows of me and referes to me a the "little slut". I have met his son a couple of times (my fiance moved here to take a job)at family fuctions. He was extremely quiet at first and then when he began to speak it was clear that this wasnt going to be an easy relationship.