Ok, I am going on the assumptions that if you are kind enough to be reading this and giving feedback you have read my previous logs. Based on feedback from here and several others, a couple of whom are teachers I spoke with my DH and said that his daughter needs a counselor or someone to talk to. I would be happy with even a school counselor. I said I don't know if I should call DFACS and let them come in and investigate or go the school gudiance route bus somebody needs to do something. He said why don't I talk to his ex first. As much as that thought makes me sick to my stomach I said ok. So I called her and said let's put our issues behind us, this situation with your daughter is out of control and I was thinking about calling the school or DFACS but I wanted to talk to you and see if we could come up with a solution. She then told me I was threatening her with taking away her children and that if I even thinking of calling them she will make sure my life changes, if I even have a life left. She said why don't I call a counselor and set up a meeting for all of us because she will not communicate with me. The last thing she said to me was I better not call anyone or my life would change for the worse if I even had a life left. I finally just called the school. (all the kids go to the same school)
and spoke with a guidance counselor. I didn't get into all the weird behavior this child has shown but I just told her the part about getting naked with my daughter and that it has continued even after we spoke with her about it. Long story short, she is going to talk to my daughter and see what she thinks of the situation. I really don't want to start WWIII here but damm doesn't she care about her own daughter. Why should I be the one to call a counseler? I will do it because I worry about that little girl but give me a break. I almost wish I had never called her. This poor kid, let's all stick our heads in the sand and pretend nothing strange is going on. My husband is at a loss what to do because in the CO it states she has final say over any medical treatment, be it physical or mental. He tried talking to her but she just said it wasn't going on at her house so it must be something we are doing here. Qustion whould you take what she said about her "changing my life if I even have one left" as a threat? Should I call someone in case something happens to me? Thanks so much for reading and feedback.