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Starting to really dislike my SIL

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Submitted by MidwestStepmom on Mon, 05/04/2015 - 1:59pm

I am extremely pissed! I just found out my vacation is ruined.

We are planning a trip this summer to see MIL, she live across the country. Ss13 will be going down there much sooner then us and then we will travel down a few weeks later with BS1 and all return home a week after that. Earlier SIL said her oldest (10 boy) was also going to be there during this time and that we can just bring him home with us.

I don't want ss13 here on Mother's Day

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Submitted by MidwestStepmom on Sun, 05/03/2015 - 8:33pm

This coming weekend is a skid weekend. BM texted dh if he was going to swap weekends like they talked about a few months ago. Dh said no, and reminded her that they never discussed anything, that she demanded they change weekends or else she would get her "free" lawyer involved. I'm so mad at Bm, because if she just would of asked dh nicely he would of said yes. I don't want ss13 here anymore then I have too. I can't come out and say I don't want him here, my dh gets hurt and upset. I tried to explain to him that Mother's Day will now be spent driving ss13 home, which is a 5 hour trip.

Invited a child molester to my house.

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Submitted by MidwestStepmom on Mon, 04/20/2015 - 11:44pm

My BSstb1 birthday is this weekend. I have a big birthday party planned out for him. I just found out today that my 2nd cousins new husband was charged a few years ago of raping a 12 year old girl. I guess he was never convicted or some crap. Anyways, I emailed said cousion and informed her that her husband could not come to my house. I don't want that type of person in my house of near my child. She got upset and got her entire family in the fight and also my mother involved in it. They are blaming me for evening bringing it up and taking back the invite.

Tog; somedays I wish I was in your situation.

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Submitted by MidwestStepmom on Mon, 04/13/2015 - 2:48pm

I am at the point in my life where I wished ss13 would PAS out and then he and Bm would forever be out of my life. Yes, I know this sounds harsh, but I wasn't always like this; evil mad step monster.

Years and years of entitled ss Bullshit and MOTY Bm drama can really put a strain on how you view the world.

A skid weekend of drama

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Submitted by MidwestStepmom on Sat, 04/11/2015 - 2:12pm

So ss received a 0/200 on a social studies project. Not doing his homework has been an issue that has been addressed at partial inpatient therapy. Bm said she would do a better job at checking his homework. Dh only sees ss13 every other weekend. Dh checked ss grades and noticed this mark, he texts Bm on Friday asking for the instructions for the project, ss was able to say exactly where is was in his bag. So this morning

Guilty parenting

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Submitted by MidwestStepmom on Sat, 03/28/2015 - 2:25pm

Does anyone else guilty parent? My dh and I work a minimum of 50 hours a week. So, the days I spend with BS I buy him stuff and spend 100% with him, even nap with him. Granted he's only 11 months, but I feel bad for working so much.

Ss13 gets to go on vacation and not me?

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Submitted by MidwestStepmom on Tue, 03/10/2015 - 9:50pm

So MIL is flying here for a few days to celebrate nephews graduation. The plan was for ss13 to fly back to mil home state and spend a few weeks there. Then dh, BS and myself would travel down and visit for a week, then return home. All this was planned before ss13 pulled his most recent shit.

I am switching jobs and therefor won't have vacation time to use. So the trip will most likely not happen. Dh wants to still send ss13 and then pay extra to fly him back by himself.

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