BM asked last friday if we would take the kids sundays from now on two hours earlier than it used to be. (she used to drop them off at 8 pm, now 6 pm)The reason, she wants to join a bowling leage. First I said "no" because she wants to get rid of the kids earlier for fun time for herself. She just has them over the weekends and once or twice a month we take 'em over night because she wants to go out. My husband didn't care like he never cares about anything that has to do with decisions. So I always end up that has to make the decision and say "yes" or "no".