I have a 25 yr old stepson. He's working full time as a hairdresser. He has lived with us for 2 years has not paid a dime to live here. He had a problem with drugs. I think he still does, my daughters said he looks high all the time. Anyways husband won't confront him or talk to him about the negative comments he says to my children. SS constantly tries to get his dad to talk to his mother. They have been divorced for 17 years. I am sick of it. He constantly spends money on stuff he can't afford. Hubby won't kick him out or made him responsible for his actions. I am sick of it.