I was married for 20 years, no children and on good terms with my ex. I had no reason not be .. we never had children, had no assets to squabble over, and just got bored with each other.

In 2006 I started dating Dan (now my second husband). Dan had four children... Jessica (19 yrs old and pregnant for a 50 year old drug addict); Daniel (11 years); Ben (7 years) and Grace (3 years)... their ages when we first started dating.