Today, my H's crazy ex began compiling more court documents to show what a terrible father he is. She so graciously called and ask us to forward her records she could turn around and send to her attorney- we keep better records than her. My H laughed. The cause of her most recent stint with the courts? My H, because he could not find a job to pay her child support in the MIDDLE OF A RECESSION, joined the military. She views his decision as "abandonment of parental responsibilities" and "abuse."