Hi everyone, so this is a ongoing problem in my home. I have a bio son who is 2 years old. And has a speech delay. And 2 stepkids boy 12 and girl 8. Their mother does not care..if they're sick they go to school, my inlaws house and our home. We have the kids in our home every weekend. I have been married to dh for 5 years. And me and the stepkids BM, do not talk to each other. And we cannot stand each other.The stepkids come over and it seems to be every other weekend they are sick. In the past 2 years.