hi all, last time i posted was in 2017, alot has happened and sd is still a thorn in my side.  I cringe when I hear her name or voice.  She moved to the other side of the country chasing a guy and throwing herself at him to take care of her, she is now 30.  she finally took a course in something but figured it was better to milk the tax payer instead of getting a job doing anything in the meantime.  now i hear from daddyo that she doesn't plan on paying back the 30k loan from the government.  well that just angers me to no end as my oldest daughter who just turned 24 has been working since