My children, (I always call them my children, because I've had them for over half of their lives.)Wanted to go see BM after church yesterday, so I called her and told her they wanted to come see her. In her oh so sleepy voice, she said they can come by for a MINUTE. Then explained to me how their little brother was not there as if I said they wanted to just come by to see him. I politely made a uturn, we went home and had a cookout. She never even called to see what happened. She does this all the time to them. I just want her to relinquish her rights and go far away.