OMG how can a BM be that heartless (I know some are but damn)
Well the evil BM is at it again. She had my SS16 withdrawn from school. He lives with us and he goes to school in her area because he has been in that school system his entire life. So when we got custody the beginning of August we let him continue to go to school there since that was the most important thing to him. Well he got called to the office today and they said they were withdrawing him becasue they had reason to believe he didn't live there anymore. My husband calls the school and the school board and come to find out they received a copy of the new custody order from her attorney. Of course, my SS was upset and went to his girlfriends house and they looked at BM facebook and she was already talking about it on there (how the school called and she had to go sign papers saying he doesn't live with her anymore. My husband called BM mom (a retired teacher) and she says no BM didn't do that the attorney said he had to or he could lose his job. GIVE ME A BREAK. She even has her family believing all of her lies. Unfortunately, she may have just lost a son over this one. He said he hasn't talked to BM and doesn't plan to. But I know what her plan is to get SS kicked out so he will come live with her and then she can try to get SD8 back. Make me boil that a mother would treat their kids like that. Sorry excuse for a mother.
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Rent a cheap room in the district and make that your address.
In TX class ranking is a big component of getting in to the more elite state schools for college.
In the better and more competitive school districts it is not uncommon for kids with high academic performance (4.0, Straight A's)to be moved down the class ranking due to the impact of community service, athletics, etc ..... These are extremely high performing kids who may not be athletes or do not participate in extracurricular activities or volunteer organizations who drop in class ranking for non academic issues. In the higher end Burb district HSs a graduating class of ~1000 may have 250+ who are straight A students. The top 25% all have the same GPA so ranking is often determined by non academic influences.
It is not uncommon for families to rent an apartment in a lower performing district where their straight A HS senior will be #1 or at least top 10% compared to the likely top 25-30% in the more competitive district. Multiple families will rent an apartment in the less competitive district and the parents will rotate weekly living in the apartment with the kids with everyone going home on the weekends.
I would look at renting a room in a home in your Skids preferred district and list the official residence as that address.
That should shoot down the BM's evil manipulations and shut up the bureaucrats in the Admin Office while allowing your Skid to stay with his class. Just because he/your family may not actually live there is irrelevant. It is not as if they lock families in their homes at night to ensure they don't sleep somewhere else.
Just my thoughts of course.
Best regards,
Success is rarely final. Failure is rarely fatal. It is character, courage and consistency of effort that count. Vince Lombardi (with some minor Rags modifications) To each according to their performance, screw Karl Marx. (Rags)
dont some mothers realize
dont some mothers realize their only hurting their child and not the other parent?
it is so sad when they get to that level....they are so unhappy they cant stand seeing anyone else happy.
Yes, mine too
If given the chance to hurt us, and hurt her own kids in the process, BM will always choose to hurt us. She is such a stupid sack of shit that she never realizes that she isn't hurting us at all and just her own kids. Having her ten year old son in tears every day because she was forcing him to be the go-between when her car wasn't working and she wanted, no expected H to provide her with transportation, but didn't have the balls to ask him herself. We always told SS that he didn't need to worry and that it wasn't his job to talk to us about this, but BM just kept making him bring it up with us. H finally confronted her and she wound up screaming at him about how he left his family and how selfish he was not to "provide" for his kids (i.e. bail her out yet again and let her use our car rather than getting hers fixed). h said he thought it was low and wrong for her to involve the kids and she said that she "wouldn't have to" if he hadn't "abandoned his family." She was clearly eating a big plate of crazy every day for breakfast. H reiterated that she needed to leave SS out of it and talk to him herself in the future and after that, she did stop making SS ask us to lend her our car, but she started up with telling SS that his dad was "selfish." and we heard that every day after school. We always went through it logically with SS and he always wound up agreeing with us that H wasn't selfish and that his mom needed to fix her own transportation issues. We told him that our job was to take care of him when he and his brother were with us and his mom's job to take care of them when they were with her. We explained it very clearly and he always understood and was relieved, but lo and behold, the next day, we'd hear it again; "dad, why are you so selfish and mean to mom?" I seriously wanted to scream!! SS wouldn't just be mildly upset, he would be in tears. It was so horrible and I don't know how this crazy bitch could stand to make her son cry every day for her own vengeful purposes. It didn't hurt us at all (I haven't been hurt from name calling since first grade), but it sure as hell was hurting SS.
I don't get women like this. And she claims to be the "better parent!" Why do all these BMs hurt their own kids?!!!!
"The truth shall set you free." ~John 8:32
even after all these years......
I agree with Cruella, as always...LOL.....I STILL don't understand how a mother can leave her children behind because she couldn't get her way....I too still don't get how a mother can hurt her children soooooo much just because she hates their father.....in actuality I think she hates herself, but must of course, must project that its "always someone else's fault"....and it is true...he won't forget what she has done to him....I don't know how these women live with themselves....I always say...what can be worse than living knowing the children u gave birth to don't want to speak to u....
A mother is not defined by the "b" or the "s" in front of her name, she is defined by how her children react when they see her cry.....