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Submitted by love_my_shichi on Wed, 12/26/2012 - 10:54am

It just occurred to me as my not fiancee in my mind anymore was writing these ass kissing reminiscent texts to BM. The BM has such power because she represents "the original family" intact. The kids and mom and dad. All of them together. I swear I think my significant other during this Christmas holiday was dreaming of them getting back together and all being together again. I listened as he picked up the boys and was chatting to his xwife and daughter at the door. He was just in heaven for like five minutes. THEY ARE HIS PEOPLE! IT WILL ALWAYS BE THEM.

Is new years a skid holiday where parents trade visitation?

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Submitted by love_my_shichi on Mon, 12/24/2012 - 7:36am

As far as I am concerned they come on weekends only and I am sick of them and they're here til Tuesday. If they have to come extra for New Years I am taking my daughter to the beach for her birthday or something. Screw this. We have a living room upstairs and the kids playroom/xboxville downstairs. Well the older boy lives in front of the xbox and now the youngest boy has started to decide he has moved in to our upstairs living room. So I basically live in the bedroom. He watches TV either with his legs wrapped around his head or turned around and bent over looking through his legs.

i thought i had heard it all

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Submitted by love_my_shichi on Thu, 12/20/2012 - 11:18am

So apparently my significant other is getting his daughter the latest I Phone for Xmas and putting her back on our contract...."because if he doesn't she will commit suicide."

Mind you BM gets $2000 a month in child support...
and we agreed that was more then enough for HER TO PAY THEIR CELL PHONE BILLS.

Secret Stash of pictures of BM! WHAT THE F@(%?

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Submitted by love_my_shichi on Mon, 12/17/2012 - 12:22pm

SO, I was looking in a closet in my fiancees home office and I see a manila office envelope tucked away to the side. In it are a bunch of pictures of him and BM from when they were young, old family pictures of all of them together like portraits with the kids, their wedding picture etc.

He cleans out this closet all the time. SO this isn't OLD!!!

I would NEVER keep a stash of pictures of my x-husband. I am very angry and sad.

What do you guys think?

DECORATE YOUR PRISON CELL

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Submitted by love_my_shichi on Thu, 12/13/2012 - 1:36pm

My new therapist says that I have two choices: accept reality and change my attitude about it, or leave. Then he brought up Martha Stuart and how when she went to prison she taught other prisoners how to knit and crochet, decorated her cell really nice etc. Basically he was like, "SHICHI, ENOUGH ALREADY, THESE ARE THE FACTS. HE HAS THESE KIDS YOU DISLIKE, THEY AREN'T GOING AWAY, THIS IS THE FINANCIAL SITUATION, THESE ARE HIS OBLIGATIONS....ETC. ACCEPT AND CHANGE YOUR ATTITUDE ABOUT THINGS OR LEAVE."

won the battle .... not the war

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Submitted by love_my_shichi on Tue, 12/11/2012 - 10:25pm

Went to the bitch pre-marriage counselor. After standing my ground it was decided that crazy SD does not come on Xmas. SO will ask BM if he can open presents with the kids at her house!!!! They both berated me for saying they should open presents at a restaurant. That was UNACCEPTABLE. ABSOLUTELY UNACCEPTABLE. so the way it stands now he has to ask his xwife if he can come over to her house and hang out with his kids awhile there....because of me....and make me look like a big jerk. Because his psycho daughter is banned from our house and I am not changing my mind.

SO is all sad again that the boys have gone home....wah!!!!

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Submitted by love_my_shichi on Sun, 12/09/2012 - 9:55pm

I hate Sunday nights. Instead of it being great because its me celebrating the skids leaving, my fiancee gets all moody and sad. He's extra upset tonight because all three of his kids are doing really poorly in school and he doesn't know what to do. I was like.....THEY'RE NOT MOVING IN HERE FULL TIME FORGET IT. IT'S NOT OUR FAULT YOUR XWIFE IS A LAZY SELFISH DUMB IDIOT. Well, he didn't appreciate that so much. So, he's also stressed about being able to keep up paying BM the $2000 a month because he's behind. And the holidays....and now he tells me he used to love holidays but not anymore.

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