I have been with my partner now for nearly 2 years- when I first met his son it was clear that something wasn't right with him! I have 2 older daughters 14 and 12 and my partners son is now 4- when we met he was 2, his only words were dada and 'loclate'. My step son spends 4out of 7 nights with his bm and the rest of the time with us!! I'm desperate for him to be diagnosed to get him some help but neither his bm or his dad seem capable of doing anything!!