I have been with my husband for 3 years now and we have 5 kids combined. He has 3 kids; 7, 17, and 21 and I have a 16 and 21 yo. The 7, 16, and 17 yo live under our roof and we have our kids full time. We both came out of 16 year marriages to partners that were unfaithful and this relationship seem to be everything we were both looking for. Unfortunately, his BM had a lot of mental issues and that put a huge strain on our relationship but we were able to figure it out.