DisneyLand Dad....You Done F*cked Up! (Part 2)
So this past weekend, this dude decides to bring his son here during his parenting time (his daughter declined....good!)
Somehow this joker thinks having ONE of his kids here is easier when I would rather them BOTH have opted out.
Anyways, everything was going fine until I go downstairs at 9:45pm and see him roaming around the house. I text Disneyland dad to inform him (he knows my stance i think he just intentionally play obtuse) that I am closing the kitchen at 10pm and the living room is closed at 11pm.
This is an hour later than I prefer simply because I am trying to give a bit of leeway on weekends.
Anyways this dudes son if lounging in the living room at 10:30 then he huff/puffs and goes in his room.
I go back downstairs to finish laundry/cleaning kitchen aroun 11:30pm and here this dude's son is AGAIN but this time he's foraging for food, turning on all the lights, most likely wasting crumbs and leaving dishes like usual.
I was pissed tf off when I saw him and wanted to tell his ass to take his tail to bed (which I'm gonna do next time if he pulls the same shenanigans) but instead I told Disneyland dad and you want to know what this mf did?
He storms downstairs, asks his son 'what are you doing', then smiles at him ...... like this is a fucking joke? No authority, no enforcement, no lecture......nothing but shits n giggles. How weak of a man are you that you allow your kids to run you around the house.
IDK why him/his son thinks its okay to be eating late night like this is My 600lb Life, like I didn't just inform his obtuse father that the kitchen is closed, like this is not his son's damn house/he doesn't pay any bills.
Keep laughing mfs! I will send BOTH y'all disrespectful a-holes packing!!!!
I woke up this am and went into ANOTHER conversation about how inappropriate is is not only for his health but also how I don't appreciate the blatant disrespect of my reasonable rules. Plenty of opportinities to eat from 8am-10pm. This generation of kids and bio parents are the most fragile snowflakes.
Disneyland dad will be using warm sock/lotion until further notice. His son begging to come over during the workweek.....HELL mfn NO!!!!
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I tried that before
With respect to the no kitchen use after a certain period. didnt go over well and Im not ready to go (yet)...
Oh Lordt! This might be a
Oh Lordt! This might be a huge battle for me then ..... the vision of singlehood in my own space without having to deal with these constant battles is looking more and more appealing
It sounds like he just went
It sounds like he just went down there and asked his son, "What are you doing?" just to appease you and basically "tell you what you wanna hear" but not to actually back you up. Hopefully next time both kids will opt out!
My SS4 is too young to opt out of visits, but DH will do A-N-Y-T-H-I-N-G to keep him an extra day because bio mom's "car is in the shop" or "has graduation ceremonies to attend" or whatever reason. It makes me so mad when I get the text from DH saying SS is leaving on Friday instead of Thursday, especially since the bio mom NEVER keeps her own child for an extra day - it's always me keeping him for an extra day. I count down the days until he leaves, so even an extra 24hrs is one day too many for me.
OMG, I hate when summer hits,
That's exactly what he did. I happened to march downstairs and unexpectedly pop-in during said 'talk' and saw firsthand how much he struggles with rules/enforcement towards his kids. I don't understand what grown man lets his kids run him around the house but whatever. I don't mind being the gentle enforcer but I really want step kids to respect my leadership or minimize their interactions with me if they find it challenging. Too old to be getting into pissing matches with kids in my home. I am not opposed to him spending his parenting time outside this house if it came down to it - or me just dropping this relationship all together.
And, OMG, I hate when summer hits, skids touchdown, the scheduling gets really sloppy, and the Disneyland parents tack on extra parenting days (usually last minute and without consulting). I started ignoring those calls/text/requests if it was a same day request. I have no problems helping but I dont like the last-minute demands happening unless it's an emergency.
Anything more than 2 hours with the skids and I'm ready hand them right back to their mother. If this guy would help them adjust better, I might be more willing to want to spend more time with them.
Between his son acting like he owns this place, and their pushover dad with his coddling lackidaisical parenting style, my patience has run really thin and it causes me to dread them being here extended periods/overnights. I feel kind of bad because it's his extreme guilt riddled disneyland dad syndrome that he needs to work on and being a better leader.
And this HCBM here does the same sh*t......intentionally acts like she couldn't be bothered to take care of the kids SHE CHOSE to bring into this world (just so she can get a free/easy ride on the backs of others)....what a grade a c*nt!!!...